Similar cases of shoots and autocratic behavior is repeated many times and each time the parents react is always the same - the condemnation and curses. One day, this emotional overload, frustration atmosphere may bring the adolescent desire to disconnect and relax. This day can be a day of the first dose of drugs And say thank you, if it is not suicide. Parents, you still have nothing to blame? Your child is becomes so ' Leading psychologists came to me in a long and emotional squabble, which has been accompanied by humiliation in my address Among the participants of the training, teenagers and parents, there were those who supported me 'Locking the children at the center, what are you doing? - I went on. - Again you are depriving them of liberty. You leave them no time for it to be themselves, filling the whole day some responsibilities on the farm (Center industry is teenagers themselves), or some made-up your activities, which may be totally not interested in them. Locking them up here, while the parents are still at large, you show that your children are - to blame for everything, and you - either in nothing. What are you supposed sufferers who are not so lucky with their children.
And after all that children need from you - this is love, acceptance and respect. They have nothing else. If you give it to them, then there would be no escape, no drugs, no nothing. " Note that All the above applies not only to teenagers but also to any adult. Any person, if his personality crush disrespect regular, constant pressure and convictions - will become a drug addict, alcoholic or will be completely antisocial. He will hate the world and feeling sorry for myself.
It will feel like a victim and the aggressor at a time. It is entirely appropriate. Therefore, each of us is responsible for our close Do not apply them to emotional wounds. Because of many injuries - die And do not, dear believers, all the blame on the 'spirits of alcoholism' and 'spiritual abuse', which allegedly come themselves to the person and make it so, and he so-and-so weak, unable to cope with them. We are all responsible for each other because we live in families and not one by one - on a desert island. Take care, love, respect, support their families, so that no one began to feel that he was alone in the whole world and did not turn off their endless pain by chemical means, for support in another world The next day I went to this center, I was sick at heart. 'Come to us often, '- I was told teenage girls who were on duty near the exit 'I've been here the last day, the girl ' - I said, and felt like a lump in my throat went up. I hugged and kissed them. 'Hold on, girl I love you all ' - I stammered, and seeing what sadness was reflected in their eyes, dashing out the door of the Centre, then the black fence and ran away, wiping away tears in the cold.
And after all that children need from you - this is love, acceptance and respect. They have nothing else. If you give it to them, then there would be no escape, no drugs, no nothing. " Note that All the above applies not only to teenagers but also to any adult. Any person, if his personality crush disrespect regular, constant pressure and convictions - will become a drug addict, alcoholic or will be completely antisocial. He will hate the world and feeling sorry for myself.
It will feel like a victim and the aggressor at a time. It is entirely appropriate. Therefore, each of us is responsible for our close Do not apply them to emotional wounds. Because of many injuries - die And do not, dear believers, all the blame on the 'spirits of alcoholism' and 'spiritual abuse', which allegedly come themselves to the person and make it so, and he so-and-so weak, unable to cope with them. We are all responsible for each other because we live in families and not one by one - on a desert island. Take care, love, respect, support their families, so that no one began to feel that he was alone in the whole world and did not turn off their endless pain by chemical means, for support in another world The next day I went to this center, I was sick at heart. 'Come to us often, '- I was told teenage girls who were on duty near the exit 'I've been here the last day, the girl ' - I said, and felt like a lump in my throat went up. I hugged and kissed them. 'Hold on, girl I love you all ' - I stammered, and seeing what sadness was reflected in their eyes, dashing out the door of the Centre, then the black fence and ran away, wiping away tears in the cold.
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